With this ring, I thee "web"

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Ring from Luke and Bracelet made by Luke
Last year, my younger sister got married and moved to Baltimore, which, by the way, is still south of the Mason-Dixon line. In preparation for my older son's role in the wedding, we bought a Calliou DVD which featured a short story about Calliou's own debut as a ring bearer.   

Since then, Luke has been trying to understand why Aunt Janie moved away.  Last week, I was explaining to him that Aunt Janie fell in love, got married and moved to Baltimore to live with Uncle Bill.  This conversation led to Luke asking a multitude of questions like, "Did it hurt to fall in love?"  and, "Mommy, can you teach me how to fall in love?"  It's so difficult to define love to a very curious three year old.  I explained to Luke that I fell in love the moment he came out of my belly and I looked into his eyes.  He then asked, "Did I love you too?"  I laughed and said, "Yes, that's when we fell in love!" 

So, a few days later, we went to Pigtails and Crewcuts to get Luke's hair cut.  After the cut, the children are allowed to pick a prize from the treasure box.  Imagine my surprise and sheer delight when Luke chose this ring, brought it over to me and said, "Mommy, with this ring, I thee web."  Yes, web.   That is not a typo.  It was one of those special moments that I'll remember forever.  Luke saw how absolutely tickled I was by his "proposal," so all afternoon we practiced "falling in love," which consisted of him putting the ring on my finger and saying, "With this ring, I thee web.  Now we can kiss Mommy."  I promise you, it was a game I never got tired of playing.  If I get to be the love of his life for the next thirty years, I'll consider myself one lucky lady!

3 comments:

  1. How absolutely precious!!!! You are one lucky lady indeed!
    Danielle

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  2. Our family had been watching "Father of the Bride" with Steve Martin recently. With two daughters, I cry every time I think of their weddings. My litte one asked when she was going to get married. "Someday, alon while from now," I told her (she is three, like Luke.) Her dad and I were tickled when she said, Okay, and can I get married to daddy?" Sweet, sweet children!

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  3. Yes, it is funny to think of our little ones getting married one day! Sweet babies.

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