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Show Your Love

1. Start each day with a kiss
2. Wear your wedding ring at all times
3. Date once a week
4. Accept differences
5. Be polite
6. Be gentle
7. Give gifts
8. Smile often
9. Touch
10. Talk about dreams
11. Select a song that can be "our song"
12. Give back rubs
13. Laugh together
14. Send a card for no reason
15. Do what the other person wants before he or she asks
16. Listen
17. Encourage
18. Do it his or her way
19. Know his or her needs
20. Fix the other person's breakfast
21. Compliment twice a day
22. Call during the day
23. Slow down
24. Hold hands
25. Cuddle
26. Ask for each other's opinion
27. Show respect
28. Welcome the other person home
29. Look your best
30. Wink at each other
31. Celebrate birthdays in a big way
32. Apologize
33. Forgive
34. Set up a romantic getaway
35. Ask "what can I do to make you happier?"
36. Be positive
37. Be kind
38. Be vulnerable
39. Respond quickly to the other person's request
40. Talk about your love
41. Reminince about your favorite times together
42. Treat each other's friends and relatives with courtesy
43. Send flowers every Valentine's Day and annivesary
44. Admit when wrong
45. Be sensitive to each other's sexual desires
46. Pray for each other daily
47. Watch sunsets together
48. Say "I love you" frequently
49. End the day with a hug
50. Remember that unkind remarks can wound deeply and may never be forgotten


  1. Oh how I love this post! Where did you find this? What a treasure.

    I'm sending this post to all of my friends & our couples Sunday School class. Thanks for sharing!

  2. Thanks for sharing Ally. I'm linking to his book in case anyone is interested!

    I stumbled across this list and knew I had to share for Valentine's Day!

  3. Believe it or not, I found it in the bathroom stalls at Hyman's Seafood in Charleston, joke!

  4. So true, so true and sometimes so hard to do. I guess I'm a poet now. These are great
    to keep in mind all throughout the year. I love the wedding ring one. I look at my ring everyday and still get an excited feeling. What mush! Glad you kept your eyes open in that bathroom so you could share.